More Of / Less Of: 33 Edition
I love a good New Year reset. And heading into 2026, I honestly felt great — big plans, clear goals, a positive mindset. I did all the things: goal setting, vision boarding, even a social media break. I outlined this blog post, too.
And then life happened. Things got busy again (more on that in a possible life update post). While I didn’t get around to writing this when I planned, I’m actually proud that my intentions for the year are still very much on track. One of my biggest themes this year is slowing down, so it feels fitting that this post is arriving a little later than expected.
In what feels like perfect timing, my 33rd birthday is right around the corner. For some reason, this birthday feels like a special one. I’m excited about what this next year holds, I have big plans, and I feel more me than I ever have before. It feels like the right moment to pause and share my reflections for the year ahead.
Turning 33 feels less about making big declarations and more about being honest — about what’s working, what isn’t, and what I want to be more intentional about moving forward. This year isn’t about adding more to my plate (or at least, I’ll try not to). It’s about being thoughtful with my time, my energy, and the commitments I say yes to.
So here’s my short list of what I’m looking for more of — and less of — at 33.
More Of
*More routines that actually support me — daily walks, moving my body, drinking enough water, and sticking with habits that help me feel like myself.
*More time spent where I’m truly irreplaceable, especially in motherhood. Being present for the ordinary moments matters more to me than trying to do everything perfectly.
*More slowing down and resisting the urge to rush through life. Not everything needs to be optimized, and I’m learning to be okay with that.
*More intention behind my calendar. Honoring commitments while also protecting time for myself — and making sure my schedule reflects my real priorities.
*More adventures, both the big, planned ones and the spontaneous, say-yes kind. Experiences and memories matter more than perfect timing.
*More grace as we step into big changes and new chapters — choosing flexibility over pressure.
*More belly laughs, silliness, and moments that lighten the day.
*More effort to make ordinary days feel special, not just the milestone ones.
Less Of
*Less time disappearing into social media without even realizing it.
*Less pressure to be all things to all people.
*Less saying yes to plans that don’t really fit this season.
*Less putting my own care last or making excuses for skipping it.
*Less running on too little sleep.
*Less waiting for the “right” time, more money, or perfect circumstances to make memories.
At 33, I’m focused on making choices that feel sustainable and aligned with the life I want to live. Nothing dramatic — just steady, intentional decisions that add up over time. Less noise, fewer obligations, and more room for what actually matters.
I’m really excited for the year ahead. Until next time, xxx McKenzie